CONTENTMENT
Have you ever, at any one time, had the feeling that life is bad,
real bad, and you wish you were in another situation?
You find life make things difficult for you, work sucks, life
sucks, everything seems to go wrong...
Read the following story... it may change your views about life:
After a conversation with one of my friends, he told me
despite taking 2 jobs, he brings back barely above 1K per month,
he is happy as he is.
I wonder how he can be as happy as he is considering he has to
skimp his life with the low pay to support a pair of old
parents, in-laws, a wife, 2 daughters and the many bills of a
household.
He explained that it was through one incident that he saw in
India ... that happened a few years ago when he was really
feeling low and touring India after a major setback.
He said that right in front of his very eyes he saw an Indian
mother chop off her child's right hand with a chopper. The
helplessness in the mother's eyes, the scream of pain from the
innocent 4-year-old child haunted him until today.
You may ask why did the mother do so; had the child been naughty,
had the child's hand been infected?? No, it was done
for two simple words- - -TO BEG!
The desperate mother deliberately caused the child to be
handicapped so that the child could go out to the streets to beg.
Taken aback by the scene, he dropped a piece of bread he was
eating half-way. And almost instantly, a flock 5 or 6
children swamped towards this small piece of bread which was
covered with sand, robbing bits from one another. The
natural reaction of hunger.
Stricken by the happenings, he instructed his guide to drive him
to the nearest bakery. He arrived at two bakeries and
bought every single loaf of bread he found in the bakeries. The
owner was dumbfounded but willingly sold everything. He
spent less than $100 to obtain about 400 loaves of bread (this is
less than $0.25 per loaf) and spent another $100 to get daily
necessities.
Off he went in the truck full of bread into the streets. As he
distributed the bread and necessities to the children (mostly
handicapped) and a few adults, he received cheers and bows from
these unfortunate. For the first time in his life he
wondered how people can give up their dignity for a loaf of bread
which cost less than $0.25.
He began to tell himself how fortunate he is. How fortunate he is
to be able to have a complete body, have a jo! b, have a
family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what
isn't nice, have the chance to be clothed, have the many
things that these people in front of him are deprived of...
Now I begin to think and feel it, too! Was my life really that
bad? Perhaps... no, I should not feel bad at all... What about
you? Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child
who lost one hand to beg on the streets.
"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the
realization of how much you already have."
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times
we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the
one which has been opened for us.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but
it's also true that! we don't know what we've been missing
until it arrives.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of
everything; they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past,you
can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures
and heartaches.
